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When Problem Solving Doesn’t Solve The Problem
There are consistently couples sitting on my couch that are stuck in the same trap: trying to solve communication problems with problem solving strategies of all kinds. These might be the next best self help book designed to give you (however-many) "steps to better...
Living with Certainty “In These Uncertain Times…”
“In these uncertain times…” This has been echoing in my brain probably since March 2020….How many times have we all heard this statement now? Almost to the point of rolling our eyes now…? Or is that just me? Either way, it sounded like a good blog title. How does one...
Seriously…how can I not be so serious?
I have been hearing a lot lately about not being serious 24/7. This is something I can struggle with in my life, especially right now, during this pandemic. I am so grateful for my kiddos who help me to remember to have fun. Playing and not being serious helps me...
What can we control during the COVID-19 pandemic?
Wow. Just wow. COVID-19. Just saying it, speaking it, seeing it written, it strikes fear in many of us, anxiety in some, terror in others, grief in still others, or even a combination of more than one emotion in many of us. Sometimes there are no words to make things...
Final Thoughts/Traveling Home (Day 12)
Our flight left at 6:15am from Tel Aviv. Last glimpses of Israel from the air. We boarded the bus for the airport at midnight and rode for around 2 hours to get there. We went through line after line after line to get through customs and immigration and checking...
Bet She’an (Day 11)
Last stop on the tour train is Bet She’an. It is the world class in terms of it’s examples of Roman ruins/cities. The city here really is something to see. Pretty amazing. Here is the model of the area. There is a theatre and a couple of hippodromes just like we...
Mt Gilboa (Day 11)
You may remember me mentioning Mt Gilboa when we visited Gideon's Spring. Mt Gilboa is nearby to the spring. This is the mountain above the valley where Saul and David met Goliath and the Philistines. The exact place is not known, but Gideon's Spring is still...
Mt Tabor/Mount of Transfiguration (Day 11)
What a God-thing. We only got to go to Mt Tabor because of the rain. It really ended up being a special trip. We left on the bus and could see the mountain as we approached. We drove through a Bedouin town on the way up. Eitan tells us that this particular town is...
Tour Life (Day 11)
This is our last day of touring, and whoa what a doozy! We went to another place pastor had never been before. First thing in the morning we went to the place I wanted to go to the second most. The place I wanted to go to the most was Jacob’s well, but that is...
Caesarea Phillipi (Day 10)
This area is where my screen-shot of my map was taken...way up north in the Golan Heights, almost to Lebanon and Syria. This place was a place of massive pagan worship to the Roman gods, particularly the Roman god Pan. So Pan had himself a bit of a fetish, he liked...
Tel Dan (Day 10)
So if you remember way back to Tel Megiddo, the word “Tel” means that it’s an area that has been built up, one civilization on top of another. In the case of Megiddo, it was 26 layers, one on top of another. Here at Tel Dan, it is two. The original buildings and...
Tour Life (Day 10)
Day 10, again, was a bit slower paced, and we spent longer at our two destinations with more hiking involved. Thankfully, I was feeling a bit better this day because we did some walking. I think I ended up with north of 14.000 steps. These two sites were worth the...
Kibbutz Deganya B (Day 9)
Our guide for the hike extension, Eitan, had gone to live on a kibbutz when he turned 15. The one he went to is on the southern end of the Sea of Galilee, and we happened to drive right by it, so he took us for a tour. A kibbutz is a community that runs with...
Kursi (Day 9)
On the Northeast side of the Sea of Galilee, we are entering the area of the Golan Heights...where all the conflict was happening round about the 1990s, among other times. There are still mine field signs right by the road, so one doesn’t want to go wandering off on...
Orthodox Capernaum (Day 9)
We get off the bus and enter the walkway down towards the Sea of Galilee...another site built right by the water. We are immediately greeted by peacocks and other migratory birds as we’re walking toward the spot where we will eat our box lunches picnic style. Of...
Magdala (Day 9)
I was surprised by just how moving this place was for me. When we were told where we were going, I thought it would be neat, but we really have seen a lot of ancient ruins by now, and they all look kinda the same. The story is what makes them so special. This place...
Mt Arbel (Day 9)
I can’t remember if I talked about Mr Arbel on the first day we toured or not. We walked along the valley on day 1 I believe, looking up at the caves that people lived in, in Jesus’ time. Bedouins and Jews lived in the mountains between Nazareth and the Sea of...
Tour Life (Day 9)
What a busy day, Day 9! Lots of cool stuff to talk about today. One of the highlights was off the tour path...Pizza Hut! After a busy morning of touring, we got to stop at an Israel supermarket. Evan and I got some cereal, some Coke, and some Oreos to get a little...
Cana (Day 8)
We don’t know where Jesus’ first miracle of changing the water into wine actually occurred, other than it was in Cana. There is a church in Cana, still a hopping city, that honors this first miracle. There is also a wine shop capitalizing on it, too, that we may or...
Zippori (Day 8)
(Sorry, whomever that is that I captured their “good side.”) : ) Not far from Nazareth is the ancient city of Zippori. I must admit to not seeing very much of this particular site because I was feeling the worst, physically, this day. I think there is a lot more to...
Orthodox Church of the Anunciation (Day 8)
As I mentioned, right by where we petted the kitty, our first stop on Day 8 after the drive back up to Nazareth was the Orthodox Church of the Annunciation. It is not known for sure where the angel appeared to Mary to give her the news that she would be Jesus’...
Tour Life (Day 8)
Today we had a comparatively lighter day. Some travel in the morning as it was time to leave Jerusalem and travel back up north to stay in Nazareth. We had a very nice hotel at the Ramada in Nazareth, best food yet...I loved the little footballs of deliciousness...
The Garden Tomb (Day 7)
This is a newer site, found in the late 1800s I believe. This area was being excavated for something else until ruins were found here. The people that found it and subsequent scholars agree that it is maybe not the tomb of Jesus, but they can’t rule out that it...
The Israel Museum (Day 7)
We went to a small area of the Israel Museum where the Dead Sea Scrolls are kept on display. Well, some of them. I am sorry to say that we were not allowed to take pictures of any of the scrolls that we saw because camera flashes degrade the parchment, so we weren’t...
St Anne’s Cathedral and Pools of Bethesda (Day 7)
Very near the Antonia Fortress is the Pools of Bethesda. Right next to the pools of Bethesda is St Anne’s Cathedral. This is one of the few cathedrals that was not destroyed by the Muslims after the Byzantine Era because they turned it into a school, and were...
Antonia Fortress (Day 7)
Pontius Pilate judged Jesus in the courtyard of the Antonia Fortress on the northwest corner of the Temple Mount. At the time, the courtyard was open to the sky, while now it is covered over to be the foundation for housing above. Thankfully, they preserved the...
Via de la Rosa (Day 7)
After we went back outside of the church by the ladder no one will move, we went through another doorway and entered a deserted courtyard. These tiny green doors are entrances to the rooms of the Coptic monks that live here in the church. They open up into larger...
The Church of the Holy Sepulcher (Day 7)
This is going to be a marathon. I may have to break it up into components because there is so much here. Choosing pictures to narrow down to is almost impossible because of the richness of the content. I’ll do my best. We start early in the morning by walking...
Tour Life (Day 7)
Today was quite the day. It was our last day with our tour guide, Mike. On day 8 we switched to the “hike” and got a different guide, but retained the same sababa (awesome) driver, Hasim. Hasim has been a driver for 15 years and it shows. Dude is amazing at...
Razzouk’s of Old City Jerusalem (Day 6)
I decided this was as good a place as any to let everyone who cares to know such things, that I visited a shop in the Old City of Jerusalem, just inside the Jaffa Gate, that has been there since the year 1300AD. This business has been handed down from father to son...
The Upper Room and David’s Tomb (Day 6)
So there is a building on the top of Mt Zion that was built well after the destruction of Jerusalem in 90AD that is a memoriam for the Last Supper. Truth be told, the place where it would have been has been destroyed. What we do know is that the disciples were...
Jericho (Day 6)
Jericho is the oldest city in the world still inhabited. We’re talking over 10.000 years here. Our tour guide, Mike, is a Jericho boy, and he had no shortage of good things to say about his home town. He says the weather is the best in the world, year round. We...
The Jordan River (Day 6)
I learned some stuff today. Well, to be honest, I’ve learned a lot of stuff every day I’ve been here, but this one is special. I didnt know, for example, that the place where Joshua brought the Israelites into the Promised Land was the same place where later Jesus...
The Valley of the Shadow of Death (Day 6)
Definitely a highlight, although it is impossible to choose a favorite. I talk with my clients often about how the path out of the thinking that is stealing their peace is like the Valley of the Shadow of Death. It reminds me of the scene in “The Empire Strikes...
Tour Life (Day 6)
Day 6 was a bit of a travel day. We went to Jericho and the Jordan river and then back to Jerusalem for a little more touring before heading back to the room a little earlier than some days. It was a great day! While this trip has been loaded with firsts, I had a...
Bethlehem Meal (Day 5)
(Before I continue, one brief note...if you are a person I might text normally, I have not been able the send or receive texts for the last 24-36 hours. Don’t worry, I’m OK...just can’t see or send texts.) Also, to protect the family’s privacy, I changed their names...
The Sacred Pit/Caiaphas’ House (Day 5)
After lunch, we got a tour of the Caprice Diamond, hmm, headquarters maybe? We got to see a $230,000 5 karat diamond in their showroom. The Jewish people have been in the diamond business for many generations because they have long been a people oppressed, and...
The Garden of Gethsemane (Day 5)
This will have to be my last post tonight, I still feel crummy and have to get up in 6.5 hours. As we continue down the triumphal entry road, (dodging the random car here and there) we see on either side...cemeteries. Mike tells us that if one wants to be buried in...
Mount of Olives (Day 5)
So next we walked down from the top of the Mount of Olives along the road of the triumphal entry. Scary road. One car width and STEEP. Let me tell you, the drivers here are crazy and are not afraid to use their horns. Our bus driver Hasim included. We love that...
The Dome of the Rock (Day 5)
In the upper courtyard there are trees and birds and kitties once in awhile too. Evan is becoming known as the cat boy because he pets the kitties wherever we see one. That’s my boy! Cool to see the trees on top planted in the terraces. Our crew took pictures on...
Southern Steps (Day 5)
So it is so hard to pick favorites...again, this is up there for me because I did an entire, lengthy Beth Moore Bible study on this next one. We went back out of the Dung Gate, and walked around the southwest corner of the temple. We went to the south side/wall of...
Western Wall Tunnels (Day 5)
So I redid the Tour Life Day 5 post and added the rest of the Day 5 stuff, so make sure you go back and read that one! : ) We got up very early in the morning to see some things before the crowds got bad, and OHHHH was it worth it. Mike is the MAN...he knows his...
Tour Life (Day 5)
Tonight is our meal with the family in Bethlehem. We won’t get back until around 8:30PM local time. Today we had almost 10.000 steps in before lunch, and I have caught the cough that has been going through the bus. I cannot promise I will blog tonight, as there was...
The Dead Sea (Day 4)
Our day today ended with a short swim in the Dead Sea. Evan and I both opted to not get all the way in, but got wet up to our knees. The water was cool, but not freezing, and felt like baby oil on the skin. People were walking around slathered with mud, which one...
Qumran (Day 4)
Qumran is where the Dead Sea Scrolls were found in 1947 by a shepherd boy who was originally from Bethlehem. Fitting! The scrolls were scriptures on scrolls that were remarkably close to the translations of Bible we already had, but just older. Mike said that the...
Masada (Day 4)
Masada is the location of the Dead Sea fortress built by Herod the Great around the time of Jesus, the first century, when he ruled up until 4 AD. What slays me is that this entire place was built for Herod to have a place to hide if the Romans or any other enemy got...
Tour Life (Day 4)
Happy New Year! Welcome to a new decade...the roaring ‘20s! Whoa right? Today was Day 4 of touring, a slower day tour wise so we could breathe a little, not walk quite so much, (only 7,000+ steps for me today!) and get back to the hotel a little early to nap and...
The Shepherd’s Field (Day 3)
Our last stop for day 3 is the Shepherd’s Field where the multitude of angels announced Jesus birth to the shepherds, keeping watch over their flocks by night. So this area is, of course, not far from the nativity spot, just across a short valley, and the site is of...
Church of the Nativity
I forgot to mention re: shopping...in Bethlehem are lots of, shall we say, street vendors? Let me tell you, these guys are AGGRESSIVE. I’m glad a friend who has been here before warned me to prepare myself to say no SEVERAL times before they backed down. They were...
Shopping Excursion
We got to stop at a place that manufactures 65% of the Holy Land olive wood sculptures and see their workshop. This dude was doing finishing carving and varnishing. No mask, and a cigarette burning. It was a tad unnerving, wondering about his lungs and whether or...
Gideon’s Springs
I made that title plural, because we actually saw three springs there. The first one is the neatest...check this out: Sorry the pic is sideways again. The back right corner of the cave shape is where the water gushes out, at a pretty good clip, too. The water is...
Tour Life 3
So it’s the end of day three, New Year’s Eve!! Well, as I type this, it is now New Years Day here in Jerusalem!!! Happy New Year everyone! I was too tired after supper tonight to do anything other than go directly to bed. Seriously. Tired. I wasn’t really...
Capernaum (Day 2)
This is up there for me too. Jesus home during His ministry years, and the home of not only Jairus, as in Jairus’ daughter who was raised from the dead by Jesus, but also the home of Peter’s mother-in-law...so Peter’s home and the site of the very first church of...
The Primacy of Peter (Day 2)
Yep, this is near the top of the list for really amazing spots, for Day 2. Lots of days to go with lots of neat stuff to see, but this is pretty darn cool if you ask me. So I didn’t know what this was either, but I know the Bible stories. Cast out your nets on the...
Tabgha (Day 2)
I can’t say I knew much about what this was until we got there, but the stories from the Bible relating to it, I did know. The most prominent one being that this is the place that is said to be where Jesus fed the 5,000 with 5 loaves and 2 fish. The church that is...
Tour Life (Day 2)
I tricked you...I’m going to slip in a quick post about some other things before Tabgha. We had a box lunch planned from EO today. Let me tell you, do they feed us. I could have literally had three meals from this lunch box. Check it out. What the heck...how much...
The Sea of Galilee, Boat Ride (Day 2)
Another very emotional stop for me...you can’t believe what I’m about to show you. Still in awe myself, and I saw it live and in person. Our last stop before lunch was a boat ride on the Sea of Galilee. Our guide Mike had brought a big bag of leftover bread for us...
Chorazin (Day 2)
Next up was the ruins of the town of Chorazin. There are different spellings, but this was the spelling in my bible. This site was particularly neat because we were allowed to roam around in the excavated ruins, and there was almost no one else there. It really...
Mount of Beatitudes (Day 2)
Well, I have to admit, I got really emotional on a couple of the stops today, and this was one of them. Our first stop of day 2 was the Mount of Beatitudes, where Jesus preached His sermon about who are blessed. I couldn’t even make it through our devotion, it was...
The Church of the Annunciation and St Joseph’s Church
Last stop before the hotel today was the Church of the Annunciation and St Joseph’s Church in old-city Nazareth. This would have been Jesus’ home town area. The Church of the Annunciation is in honor of where Mary lived at the time the angel came to visit her to let...
Mount Precipice
After lunch we went to Mt Precipice. The corresponding Bible reading is Luke 14, when they wanted to throw Jesus down and kill Him. Let me tell you, the average Joe would not survive being thrown over the side of this thing, there are really nasty jagged rocks all...
Tel Megiddo
Still before lunch today, we went to Tel Megiddo. Tel means like “mountain”. It’s the foundations of 25 cities all built on top of one another, so it’s up a ways now, like a mountain. The oldest part of the excavation was the gate to the city from 6,000 years ago,...
Aquaduct Stop!
We did a very very short stop to see the remnants of the aquaduct system used to get fresh water to Caesarea. Water traveled 5 miles from Mt Carmel to provide water to the city. It was a short stop, but cool...we collected some neat shells on the shore and got some...
Caesarea (Maritime)
Our first stop today after leaving Netanya was Caesarea to the north. Caesarea was built up just before the time of Jesus around 22BC. It was built as a port city by Herod the Great. This is the Herod that was not real excited about the birth of a new king rumor...
Tour Life
Well, we made it through our first full day of touring. I thought I would share a few non-tourist-destination type things. For example, the food. I’ve eaten more than a few things I don’t recognize, and a few things I do. Last night’s buffet at the hotel was...
Safe In Israel!
Well, we made it! What a marathon. We’ve been up for I don’t know how many hours, but still haven’t slept yet. We arrived safely, took us awhile to get through the line to have our passports checked, but then the tour company greeted us and were ready to load us...
Welcome To Vienna!
We have arrived safely in Vienna! Whoa was that a long flight. We stood up and walked and went to the bathroom one time for about five minutes, the rest of the 8.5 hours we were seated, sardined in. Evan said he lost part of his soul during the flight. I’m still...
We’re Off!
The morning went smoothly, even though neither one of us could sleep much with the excitement! We are at the airport now, eating lunch at Granite City. We got through the first, most lenient of our checkpoints, and had our first devotional and blessing as a group. We...
An Introductory Snippet of my Journey to Become a Therapist
“What do you want to be when you grow up?”, a common question we are all asked at some point in our lives. From a grocery store cashier, to therapist, there were quite a few moments in between that shaped the idea of “what I want to be” into “who I want to be”. I grew...
Israel, Here We Come!
Hi all! I’d like to invite you all to follow along as my son and I travel to and around the Holy Land for two weeks from Dec 27, 2019 to Jan 10, 2020! I will plan to post blogs regularly while we’re gone; I’m going to shoot for at least once daily. I hope you will...
Talk Therapy without Talk: Brainspotting
How would you like to attend therapy, and potentially not even have to talk during therapy? You don’t have to worry about someone judging you for what you’ve said, or done, or are wanting to do; you can just go and work through all of it without uttering a word? This...
What Does Grief Look Like?
Before I begin my blog post, I want you to know I am okay, I have fantastic support, and I have been ready for this moment, and I am at peace so do not feel sorry for me because I truly am okay. Now, some of you may know, I recently lost my mom to cancer this year....
New Year’s Resolutions: Yay or Nay?
New Year’s Resolutions: Do you make them? Do you love them? Do you hate them? Why do we make them?
Beautiful Sorrow
I have been looking at photography pictures and different photographers the last few weeks, which I love because each of their perspectives on people, things, animals, settings, etc. are all different. I found a project that involved filling people’s physical scars,...
Intimacy
I recently read Matthew Kelly’s Book, “The Seven Levels of Intimacy,” and it was a fantastic read. I recommend reading it if you are trying to figure out why we do, or do not, share certain things with certain people. The best way I can think of to describe how we...
Grace for… me?
Ugghhh… I wish I could remember the topic I had picked out the other day as I was driving home. It was awesome, but I can’t. I am only human. Wait! There it is. Sweet. I remembered (that’s rare for me)! Grace, or forgiveness without deserving it, for myself. Offering...
The Fear of Failure
Failure, what a weird, small word that packs a powerful punch to the gut. I mean a sucker punch to the gut that knocks us completely off our feet. When we want to try something, but worry about 'what if it fails"...and we are completely crushed. We can't move, can't...
The Benefactor Of Forgiveness
Nancy Eisenman, LCSW discusses the benefits of forgiveness.
Big Changes!
Big changes for Nancy Eisenman, owner of Peace Counseling Group.
Self-Determination
Self-determination. Have you heard this term? If not, you might have heard about self-determination in a different way, choice. But, what does the term really mean? If you Google self-determination it comes up with two choices, one is about a country's statehood, the...
The Importance of Relationships
Relationships, don't want to live with them at times, but physically can't live without relationships. Human beings are social creatures. Babies like having relationships with people, they watch our every move, they listen to our voice (even before they are born!)....
Grieving is a Ping Pong Ball
So, I am sure you are asking, what do ping pong balls have to do with grief and loss? I am so glad you asked! Most of us know what happens when we play ping pong and the ball goes rogue. The ping pong ball bounces off the edge of the table, it goes one way, then the...
Finding Peace When Overwhelmed
Have u ever felt overwhelmed u start to feel some or a lot of anxiety? So much going on at home, getting kids to sporting events, doing laundry for your spouse’s meeting, running to the store to get dinner, having to plan your own meeting for work, etc, ...
Men and Women Speak Different Languages
I was talking with my husband the other day, and I determined that men and women at times seem like they speak different languages, even if they both speak English! Well, it doesn’t have to be men versus women, but maybe more people who think logically and...
Seasonal Affective Disorder
It's that depressing time of year again... The heats been over for a little while, it's cloudy, it's rainy, it's well, depressing, and to top it all off, we won't see another sunset after 7pm until March! That is a lot of darkness until daylight savings kicks in...
Change Can Be A Rollercoaster
Change, it’s sort of like a rollercoaster, isn’t it? It can be exciting and scary all at the same time. We don’t always know where the next twist or turn is going to take us. When we finally take the plunge towards change, down that humongous hill,...
The Devastating Effects of an Affair
If you've ever been through an affair in your relationship, it can have devastating effects. An affair can lead to divorce, loss of relationships (not only the ex-partner, but also loss of relationships with their parents, siblings, nieces and nephews, etc.), anxiety,...
Let It Go
The longer I live, the more I realize that peace comes to me when I let go, not when I hold on. The thing to let go of that causes the resulting feeling of peace the most? Control. Ya, we human beings hate that don’t we? Nevertheless, that’s our topic today, so...
About Therapy
Maybe it feels like Groundhog Day. A hamster wheel that never stops. The never-ending rollercoaster ride to Perdition. You’ve tried and tried and tried to make a relationship work, or to talk yourself into feeling better. It’s not working. Can’t I just be happy? ...
Where does peace come from?
I had a client ask me one time, “Where does peace come from?” You see, I have a mug in my office that has a saying on it about peace, and I think it captures the feeling that most everyone that comes to therapy is looking for…it reads: “Peace. It does not mean to be...
The Cure For Abandonment
Written by Nancy Eisenman on March 10, 2010 In the waiting room, there are all kinds of tea and coffee, water and Crystal Light packets. We also have a pretty extensive stash of candy. Every once in a great while, I’ll offer a new client that looks a little uneasy a...
A Strong, Non-Reactive Voice
It is a most beautiful summer day and I am enjoying watching my kids swim in the warm sunshine. What a great day! Today I want to talk about one of the goals of therapy, recovery, and differentiation in general. It is a phrase that I use often to describe that...
There Is No Substitute
What a beautiful morning! There is a bird singing outside my window and the sunrise was breathtaking. While it is not my norm, I am more of a night owl, I woke up early this morning and couldn’t go back to sleep, so I thought I’d blog awhile. The subject I want to...
The Secret Garden
It feels so good to be blogging again! I have brewed myself a cup of Wild Mountain Blueberry coffee and I’m curled up with my iPad, a blanket, and a kitty laying by me…ready to indulge in something I have been away from for far too long…writing about my passion!...
Step Four, Check!
As promised in my post “Step Three, Check!“, this entry is to report, and celebrate, MY GRADUATION!!!! You may all now call me “Master”, HA HA! My official moniker is now Nancy J. Eisenman, MSW. My master’s degree in social work is in the books, diploma on the...
The Importance of Self Care
This is a topic that I’ve written on before, but I think it is a good idea to revisit it from time to time. I know that I, for one, need reminders in this area. Today we are going to discuss self care. It’s a pretty easy trap to fall into, particularly in today’s...
Healthy Conflict
I know, right? What a yucky topic: conflict. You might be saying, “I don’t like conflict!” Not many people do. It’s just uncomfortable and many folks are straight-up conflict avoidant. Besides, how could conflict be healthy? Isn’t conflict bad, and aren’t we all...
Step Three, Check!
It’s time for another update on my road to becoming an MSW, LSW, LCSW…. I have now just begun my final year of graduate school. I have finished 36 hours (of 60) and I’m currently engaged in completing 13 more. In the spring of 2014 I will have 11 left, and...
The Myth Of Urgency
I’m glad you stopped by The Waiting Room today because we are going to chat about a topic that can give you some amazing freedom to relax during conflict! Fix a cup of your favorite warm beverage and join me for a few quiet moments during a busy day. If you have read...
Anger = “Ouch”
It’s probably no surprise that the number one reason people give for picking up the phone and calling for a therapy appointment is “We just can’t communicate.” Even if the reason is something else: infidelity, addiction, anxiety, or relationship issues with friends...
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